Who benefits from the School of Love?

  • You want a better relationship than your parents had

  • You been divorced or had lingering hurt from a past break up

  • Communication feel like the harder you try, the more your partner misses what you mean

  • There too much conflict or none at all

  • You want your kids to see something better

  • You long for the easy times when you first met

Did you answer yes to any of these questions?

Then you’re part of the 80% of couples that has to learn how to have the relationship you want.

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Understand how to have better communication, connection and intimacy. Watch this video to learn how.

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If Netflix is $15 and a good lunch is $15, the a good relationship is worth at least that much!

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What's Included in the School of Love?

Every one of these courses and categories.

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School of Love (Professional Edition)

The professional edition includes everything in the school of love, and also includes resources created for relationship therapists and couples counsellors.

What this unique community gives you...

Relate's resource library gives you 24/7 access to the questions couples just like you have asked over the years and the chance to interact and pose your questions for the team and the rest of the community. For us its all about connection!

  • Targeted videos with demos and explanations on topics ranging from communication to fight stopping and how to repair trust

  • 200+ targeted lessons to give you a lifetime of strategies.

  • Relationship Tune-Ups to ensure your relationship stays strong

  • Q&A with the Experts Get access to the community chat to get answers to your questions

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After the trial period ends members will be automatically billed to the card on file. Our intent is to offer these services at the lowest possible rate so we do not refund for partial months or if you forget to cancel the subscription before the trial period ends. When you cancel the membership you will access to the library till the end of the billing month.
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The Relate Team

Counselor Trainer and Director of Relate Relationship and Couples Counselling NZ

Steven Dromgool

Steven is Oceania's is the founder and clinical Director at Relate, New Zealand’s largest Relationship and Marriage Therapy Team. After his own marriage failed Steven started traveling around the world to train under experts including Harville Hendrix, John and Julia Gottman, Stan Tatkin, Maya Kollman, Ellen and Peter Bader-Pearson, Sue Johnson, Terry Real and Esther Perel. He has been actively involved in promoting and linking therapeutic and brain science insights to produce more powerful and integrated connection solutions. Steven led the Relate team in developing an integrated approach to working with couples called PORT (Presence Oriented Relationship Therapy). During Covid Steven and the team have been focussed on developing online resources to help resource couples around the world in times of stress.

Wellness Educator

Daniel Gummo

Dan's goal is to help develop a sense of connection and meaning in a world that is often lonely and aimless. He sees a lack of information as the largest obstacle. Therapy is a complicated process with many misconceptions, Dan's goal is to help people get the most out of the counseling process. He brings his experience as an Existential-Humanistic Psychotherapist, Community Mental Health Supervisor, Behavioral Health Trainer for the University of Alaska, and Director of Premier Community Supports to the Relationship Champions Community.

Just for fun

Steve and Dan, Spreading Love

We met at an experiential retreat 2018, becoming fast friends. Other than bonding over trekking, chili sauce on eggs and dry humor - we recognized that the world needs emotionally connected men. Our passion for connected living, deep communication and the pursuit of better relationships helped us to create Relationship Champions.